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Starcrossed

Starcrossed

Reach Maximum Relationship Level with a Companion

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How to unlock the Starcrossed achievement in Starfield - Definitive Guide

This is a work in progress but a there are a couple points to note before progressing far into the main story.

*Main Mission 10 NO SUDDEN MOVES is a point of no return of sorts. In the following mission,



Companion affinity is increased via dialog options with them or in front of them that the favor, making certain decisions in quests and time spent with them in your party. Companion affinity is decreased by saying things and performing actions the respective party finds unfavorable. You will be notified of the character's feeling towards your action by a prompt in the top right corner of the screen stating their feelings.

*Leadership Perk Rank 1 increases companion affinity gain by 25% (although this seems to be unnecessary if you're just looking to get this achievement out of the way).

*Each Companion has a personal quest that will delve into their backstory. This must be completed before any progress is made on their affinity meter. Additionally, they will often request for you to have a conversation with them, furthering their backstory. Ensure you have these conversations as they pop up.

*Romance is of course an option. If that's your prerogative with your companion, then choose "flirt" at every opportunity when speaking to them.

The following is a guide to each character capable of a Maximum relationship level. I'll be updating as the community figures out exactly how to act. Don't worry about this one too much. It's a massive game with ample opportunities to maximize multiple relationships.


Sarah:


Barrett:


Andreja:


Sam:


Please let me know if there is any more information that's required. Wanted to get this out there for everyone to start working toward. Have fun!
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You dont need to do the main mission at all to unlock this. I progressed only to where you get the 3 missions for the other different companions and then went about doing the UC/Vanguard faction quest line. Still not even done with the whole UC quest line and I just had the ceremony with Sarah and the achievement popped.
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By Blauman on 03 Oct 2023 23:31
To give some idea of how long this takes, this is what I completed, started off fresh from a new game+ with Sarah:
I had the perk Leadership - rank 1 perk for companions to gain affinity 25% faster.

Main Missions
One Small Step
The Old Neighbourhood
The Empty Nest
Into the Unknown
Back to Vectera
All that Money can Buy
Starborn
Further in the Unknown
Short Sighted
No Sudden Moves
High Price to Pay
Unity
In Their Footsteps
Final Glimpses
Entangled

Faction:
Job Gone Wrong

Misc: Groundpounder & In Memoriam
& 2 Constellation missions (both locate POI) and 2 UC missions. (both transporting people)

It might be an idea to buy/make as many Paramour (Hippolyta / Synapse Alpha / Hypercatalyst, ) and use them every time you are in a major conversation, might boost things along quicker.
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By Broton69 on 18 May 2024 21:11
very helpful thanks!!
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By Noon on 02 Sep 2023 04:41
I have maxed relationship with Sarah (romance) up to the waterall mission where she becomes my ally. But cheevo hasnt unlocked possible bug?
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By FatedSole on 02 Sep 2023 19:40
@FatedSole Sarah requires additional affinity even after the love scene so you should still be in the clear.
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By InfiniteBoyd on 02 Sep 2023 20:49
@infiniteboyd - Yep i just a bit longer and it popped after a few more interactions. Cheers.
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By FatedSole on 02 Sep 2023 23:23
It ends in wedding. Also in Starfield.
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By Reqqu on 03 Sep 2023 10:36
Is there a way to see the progress?
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By WillGoss12 on 06 Sep 2023 15:12
Yeah I don’t know why we can’t see achievement progress. For example 10 companions achievement why isn’t there a progress bar? Same goes for all the progression related ones
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By ACANUCKEH on 06 Sep 2023 20:59
@willGoss12 @ACANUCKEH Yeah, I've noticed across all BGS titles that achievement tracking doesn't work. You'd think with it being a first party title that they'd ensure optimal compatibility with the Xbox systems. Not too big of a deal though considering both are unmissable & pretty easy to attain through natural progression. Best of luck!
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By InfiniteBoyd on 06 Sep 2023 21:13
Which character will be best?
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By ReAl ImPuLsE on 07 Sep 2023 00:00
Does doing certain faction quests mess up your relationship status with the companion you are using? For example if I do the Crimson Fleet questline with Sarah, will that prevent me from maxing out my relationship with her?
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By wolfzero01 on 07 Sep 2023 17:42
@ReAl ImPuLsE I first got this with Sarah very quickly so I would personally go with her (as she comes equipped with the leadership perk). But I've maxed out affinity with all available companions by now and still have plenty to do. So the choice is really up to you.
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By InfiniteBoyd on 08 Sep 2023 08:21
@wolfzero001 Nope, they might not like certain decisions you make on quest lines but unless you go on a huge murder spree, their dislike won't be near enough to counteract all opportunities for positive affinity. If you want to play it safe however, you can always dismiss them before a big choice and then go retrieve them afterwards.
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By InfiniteBoyd on 08 Sep 2023 08:24
@InfiniteBoyd, thanks for the info.
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By wolfzero01 on 08 Sep 2023 18:08
@infiniteBoyad, Thanks decide go with Sarah
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By ReAl ImPuLsE on 08 Sep 2023 19:41
@infiniteBoyad, Thanks decide go with Sarah
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By ReAl ImPuLsE on 08 Sep 2023 20:46
Idk what's happening, but i've been wandering with Andreja for 10h+, she's my girlfriend already but I Just can't propose her and I don't know why. And yes i've been choosing the right dialogue options
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By xKabrutus on 09 Sep 2023 09:23
@kabrutus same, i dont have the commitment option
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By TheCOMEBACKxKID on 10 Sep 2023 08:37
Do you have to romance for this? I'm trying to max relationship as a friend with Barrett and despite 50+ hours this hasn't popped..
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By FrenchFrye on 10 Sep 2023 12:32
I also got it with Sarah Morgan after doing 4 main missions at most. Just keep her as a companion and keep using the “nicer” options. Keep talking to her from time to time , ask personal questions and if possible , flirt!
Not a difficult achievement by far.
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By Sol76 on 10 Sep 2023 16:11
I managed to get this pretty early in the game with Sarah. Level 17 and only just completed the main quest "All That Money Can Buy".

Kept her as my companion the whole time, picked the nice options with her around. If she disliked anything I picked, I just reloaded the save. Shouldn't take you too long
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By JJR0906 on 10 Sep 2023 21:24
Did Sams mission and he considers me an "Ally" But did not get it to pop.
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By Zero Jehuty on 14 Sep 2023 00:33
I've had Sarah with me the whole game and I had the waterfall interaction with her and I'm sure I proposed to her but the achievement didn't unlock. WTF?
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By DrewM987 on 14 Sep 2023 02:19
It's frustrating, every time I play a game on my Series X at least one achievement will bug. There hasn't been a game I've played recently on Xbox that I haven't had this problem. Xbox needs to look into their achievement system and figure out what is causing bugs.
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By DrewM987 on 14 Sep 2023 13:23
It finally popped for me. I just kept doing missions and I finally received a mission that said talk to Sarah. I did and we got married.
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By DrewM987 on 14 Sep 2023 15:24
I proposed AND we are sleeping in the same bed (emotional security buff) yet this hasnt unlocked. Good grief.
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By LifeExpectancy on 15 Sep 2023 01:59
I've had Sarah more or less since the beginning and still don't have it. There's just no telling what will piss her off at any given time. It's like completely unpredictable. Every time it says she disliked that I just roll my eyes.
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By NamelessxDread on 15 Sep 2023 20:45
@dread I think the guide explains it, because Sarah likes when you're nice/use the persuade option in dialogue and avoid conflict.
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By DrewM987 on 15 Sep 2023 23:17
Hasn't popped for me sadly. I maxed out Alejandra because I can't stand a british accent and romanced her, yet no achievement. I'm gonna try to max out someone else and friendzone them to see if that fixes it.
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By DrySpongeYT on 16 Sep 2023 05:57
If like me you want to get this as soon as possible. Doing the crimson fleet quests in the nicest way possible seems to gain a lot of likes
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By potato master58 on 16 Sep 2023 16:01
You have to marry the companion for it to get to the max
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By Demoneydsniper on 17 Sep 2023 00:07
This achievement is bugged. Finished last mission with Sam, became best friends and no pop. Reloaded the save and chose love. Still no pop. Brutal
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By BraveStoner on 17 Sep 2023 16:31
Does anyone know if there is anything that voids you from marrying/maxing out companionship with Sarah? I'm like level 36 now and had her the whole game and never got the In Memorium quest and I never get a "flirt" option. Did I make some critical mistake somewhere? Is it glitched?
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By NamelessxDread on 17 Sep 2023 16:49
How do you do this?
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By beastman rules on 17 Sep 2023 17:38
You need to marry the companion for this to unlock. I did this with Andreja and her mission is "Divided Loyalties" to find her old friends. You need to continue to talk with her a few times before the option to marry her appears. She will think about it for some time and then starts the mission "Commitment: Adreja" where she will give you a gift. Achievement unlocked after collecting the gift & talking to Adreja to finish the mission.
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By Jxck22 on 17 Sep 2023 23:04
So if you didn't choose, flirt options throughout your playthrough you're screwed? This achievement should be marked as missable
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By BraveStoner on 18 Sep 2023 05:31
I've been with Adreja, got up to the point "Commitent Adreja" where she say's about going to "Planet Shoza II" but the quest has not appeared in my missions any where ?
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By DJ Batfink on 19 Sep 2023 19:38
Why so many choose Andreja over Sarah?
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By IdanST on 24 Sep 2023 07:10
Story spoiler... is why
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By A DEAD B0DY MAN on 24 Sep 2023 16:34
I've made it to the point of commiting to Andreja and have completed her questline but how do I progress it to the point of maximum relationship and get married for the achievement?
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By Stumbows on 26 Sep 2023 06:13
Just curious if anyone is experiencing an issue completing this with Barrett? I've completed all his companion quests and maxed out my relationship, but haven't gotten any marriage dialog options. I noticed that one of the used dialog options (talking again about Erwin's case) jumps to the wrong follow-up questions.
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By ZidaneStrike on 28 Sep 2023 20:36
^ me too, married as soon as I could and have only done positive things since then, seeing Barret liking or loving my actions. I have the feeling we'll need to start the whole game over again with a different companion. Just can't get max companionship with him at all, and it doesn't help there is no visual tracker for this.
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By CpL KaNe ZA on 01 Oct 2023 08:22
The explanations I've seen from video guides are not entirely clear either, is it only possible to unlock the achievement by having a wedding with your main companion after the main questline? Because that seems to be the insinuation of the guide that RhinoceRoss posted as a solution
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By CpL KaNe ZA on 01 Oct 2023 08:28
Okay, continued on with the main story, I'm basically on the last mission and finally got a request from Barrett to continue his storyline, there will eventually be a dialogue option labelled "Commitment", I believe this is the key to unlocking the achievement.
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By CpL KaNe ZA on 01 Oct 2023 09:27
Cool, thanks for that update, CpL KaNe ZA!
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By ZidaneStrike on 02 Oct 2023 14:31
To everyone who thinks it's glitched for them:
I did every story mission and every fraction missions. I was sure there's something wrong, because after 50 hours I still didn't have the "Divided Loyalities" Quest. Tired to boost the relationship with giving money away in Cydonia and New Homestead, but nothing seemed to work.
I was about to start New Game+, but I wanted to collect the powers first. After the third one, Andreja finally wanted to talk and I got the quest.
Don't give up, there's probably nothing wrong.
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By WitakPL on 05 Oct 2023 13:36
I achieved this with Sarah - but I did not click any Flirt options, as they were so cheesy. So it looks like you don't need to flirt all the time.
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By SneakyStabbalot on 06 Oct 2023 16:22
@WitakPL, you are totally right!
I completed almost everything in the game (except Powers and some Misc quests), I have 100+ hours in the game and I never ever got the chance to trigger the 'In Memoriam' quest for Sarah.
Surprise, in the moment I reached level 100, she wanted to talk to me and 'In Memoriam' was triggered immediately. Now I am following her questline but I am not sure if there are still any remaining activities in the game for me to do in order to continue her affinity... any idea, any advices?
Are the 'power' quests enough to fill her achievement meter and get it done now, since I completed everything else in the game?
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By Xander RO on 09 Oct 2023 09:37
I have the lone wolf trait active (or whatever it’s called). Will this be impossible to get if I only talk to them in the ship or in town?
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By Walter O Dim82 on 09 Oct 2023 18:59
I married Andreja but the achievement hasn’t unlocked. I’m not sure what else to do, I guess I’ll pick another companion and try again.
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By BobLoblaw on 13 Oct 2023 15:58
No problems here, I married Andreja which unlocked the cheevo and then got bored with her backwards beliefs and married Sarah as well - which Andreja wasn't very happy about tbh.
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By JOHN SWFC on 15 Oct 2023 17:27
If you are struggling to get Andreja (not sure if this applies to other companions) to talk to you to give you the loyalty mission, try completing whatever main storyline mission you are on. I completed No Sudden Moves and then No Price to Pay and she caught up and wanted to talk to me immediately. A bunch of other dialog events were also caught up on.
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By Coherent Win on 16 Oct 2023 12:45
I have finished the main story and the faction quests pretty much with no companions and now I find myself struggling to increase my affinity with anyone.

What can I do to advance my affinity with my companion? Are miscellaneous missions sufficient? Do I need to start a NG+?
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By Geezr Pleazr on 03 Nov 2023 15:50
Can someone confirm for sure whether or not you have to romance a companion to unlock this? Can you unlock it by being “friends”? I’ve completed Barrett and Sarah’s personal quest and picked the “friendship” option during the talk after, no achievement though.
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By UX SonicFast on 06 Nov 2023 00:10
Any suggestions if there are issues with this achievement ? I have completed Sarah's personal mission 'In Memoriam' and completed 'Commitment: Sarah Morgan' but it still hasn't unlocked
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By G0RD0NFREEMAN on 15 Nov 2023 23:12
I also completed the 'Commitment: Sarah Morgan' with the achievement not unlocking. I then reloaded right before the 'ceremony' and just skipped all dialogue options selecting the first option everytime. The achievement unlocked immediately after showing the quest was completed.
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By Katfewd on 19 Nov 2023 00:13
Looks like this is going to have to be new game+ for me
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By drainedvitality on 22 Nov 2023 11:36
Unlocked it no issues with Andreja after completing here marriage quest.
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By Arsenic 17 on 11 Dec 2023 21:14
I'm finishing up my fourth universe for my character, and I still have yet to get this. Do you have to marry a companion to get this achievement? Because I've always gone the "best friends" route.
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By KuriTheGamer on 12 Dec 2023 23:46
@KuriTheGamer Yes you must marry a companion as this is what Starfield considers the highest form of relationship.
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By InfiniteBoyd on 13 Dec 2023 15:48
I was nice to Sarah and she liked all my decisions and I flirted with her but I never got a chance to romance her and marry her? I already beat the game (but I refused Unity) so I was wondering if I can still get her or should I try Barrett??
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By InugamiTheHound on 23 Dec 2023 00:32
I’ve had Sarah with me the whole game, I’m level 31 with 38 hours in the game. I’ve done her “in memoria?” Quest line and have romanced her but have not been able to get t her commitment mission. Any help?
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By Pinehapple on 11 Sep 2023 00:58
@DrewM987 same with me. I've had Sarah as my sole companion the entire game. I did her personal quest. Had a heart to heart at the water fall. Flirt with her every opportunity. The achievement has never popped, and her progression doesnt seem to be increasing either. I'm at a loss.
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By RabidPiano on 14 Sep 2023 12:32
I maxed out with Andreja and something that I found that worked well with her was if you do a Freestar Collective Hostage rescue bounty from the board she will like every time you free the hostage and this only took me about 10ish bounty since it happened everytime.
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By opG v1 on 04 Oct 2023 11:59
You dont need to do the main mission at all to unlock this. I progressed only to where you get the 3 missions for the other different companions and then went about doing the UC/Vanguard faction quest line. Still not even done with the whole UC quest line and I just had the ceremony with Sarah and the achievement popped.
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By Blauman on 04 Oct 2023 15:02
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Bethesda Game Studios has made a concerted effort to improve its core relationships in Starfield, and that is very much apparent. In all, Starfield has 4 romanceable/super friend options (Sarah, Sam, Barrett and Andreja), each of which actually has its own Mass Effect-like loyalty mission at the end (although nowhere near that kind of quality).

Basically, to get a companion to the maximum relationship level, you need to take them everywhere with you, and make dialogue choices while in the game that they would approve of. In other words, when you’re with Sarah, don’t be a dick, don’t be evil, don’t steal, don’t kill innocents, and when you get a chance to speak, talk about how you love Constellation and exploring the galaxy. Just generally be as nice as possible.

Then, at various points throughout the game, the companion in question, whoever that may be, will ask to speak to you, and they’ll reveal more about themselves and open up more. This process then goes on and on: you do things that they like, and they’ll eventually ask to speak to you as you climb the various invisible tiers on the relationship tree - it'll even create an entry in your Activities list too (which will help with Fixer (30G)).

In terms of tips for how to max out a relationship, try these:
  • If you want a romantic relationship, when you get the chance choose “Flirt” as the conversation option.
  • Try to stick to one follower companion until you've unlocked this achievement. Once you’ve done one, then you can share the wealth and try the others.
  • Different companions give you different gifts every so often - Sarah gives you organic resources, Sam gives you inorganic resources, and Andreja straight up gives you credits.
  • Responses to things you do in the world range from this character “Dislikes that” and”Hates that” to “Likes that” and “Loves that.”
  • If you’re going to do something dodgy, leave your companion on the ship, or ask them to wait around the corner while you go and do something shady.
Basically though, get them to the top level and finish their loyalty mission, and see the relationship through to the maximum and you’ll unlock this achievement.
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